[OMG] His wife unknowingly provided him a painful reason to cheat! Heartbreaking!

We all know that cheating is unacceptable and inexcusable no matter what situation you're on. Not only does it destroy the relationship the couple had built, it also makes the person cheated experience an overwhelming feeling of emptiness that will take a long period of time to heal. 

If you're one of those people who've been a victim of cheating, you all know so well that painful and difficult feeling. More often than not, the blame falls on the shoulder of the person who cheated. After all, cheating is a decision you make, not an accident nor a mistake; giving it a perfect reason for them to take the blame.

But there are most cases that sometimes, rather than a decision, it becomes a pressure, forcing you to cheat on your partner.

For instance, this husband cheated on his wife. Pained and heartbroken, the wife decided to end their marriage.

However, before anything else, the husband explains to her why. After reading this, you'll start to doubt your initial judgement on cheating:

"You are a disrespectful pig!" she cried. "How dare you do this to me – faithful wife, the mother of your children! I'm leaving you. I want a divorce!" And the husband replied "Hang on just a minute love, so at least I can tell you what happened."

"Fine, go ahead," she sobbed, "But they'll be the last words you'll say to me!"

And the husband began — "Well, I was getting into the car to drive home and this young lady here asked me for a lift. She looked so down and out and defenseless that I took pity on her and let her into the car. I noticed that she was very thin, not well dressed and very dirty. She told me that she hadn’t eaten for three days!" 

"So, in my compassion, I brought her home and warmed up the enchiladas I made for you last night, the ones you wouldn't eat because you're afraid you'll put on weight. The poor thing devoured them in moments. Since she needed a good clean up I suggested a shower, and while she was doing that I noticed her clothes were dirty and full of holes so I threw them away." 

"Then, as she needed clothes, I gave her the designer jeans that you have had for a few years, but don’t use because you say they are too tight. I also gave her the underwear that was your anniversary present, which you don't use because I don't have good taste. I found the sexy blouse my sister gave you for Christmas that you don't use just to annoy her." 

"And I also donated those boots you bought at the expensive boutique and don’t use because someone at work has a pair the same." The husband took a quick breath and continued – "She was so grateful for my understanding and help and as I walked her to the door she turned to me with tears in her eyes and said, Please... do you have anything else that your wife doesn't use?"

In the end, cheating is not tolerated no matter what reason you give. But, it all goes to how you handle the blame. Having being cheated on is already a hurtful experience, you shouldn't make it anymore harder for yourself. It may be painful and difficult, but not understanding the problem will only make you unable to move on and heal.

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